Love is a whisper: “I’ll get the baby this time,”the whir of the electric mixer, creaming butter and sugar–the start of a birthday cake,the roar of the carpet cleaner after the dog vomits in the corner (again).Love is freshly cut grass,traces of bleach that linger in the bathroom.Love is, “I think you should get that mole checked,”counting silver threads of hair,a FaceTime call with a … Continue reading Love is
pluck a bright bouquet of dandelions for me on a morning walk draw two stick figures holding hands (mommy, it’s us!) ask, will you play cars with me? tell me your jokes before anyone else beg for one more song at bedtime bake me play-doh cupcakes (with play-doh cherries on top) choose me to put on your band-aids crawl into my side of the bed … Continue reading 13 ways to say i love you
A list of everything I read in 2025 with short reviews. Continue reading 2025 Reads
Crash, crash, crash! Two weeks before Christmas, my son shatters an ornament with three jabs of a mini hockey stick. I spend the afternoon combing through the carpet for shards of glass and vacuuming until a satisfying array of lines replaces the mess. The hand-painted ornament was a favorite—a souvenir from the San Diego Zoo—and each year when we placed it on the tree, I … Continue reading A Tree Full of Stories
I love white twinkle lights on palm trees.⠀I love a mailbox full of Christmas cards.⠀I love baristas and cashiers decked out in ugly sweaters and reindeer headbands with jingle bells.I love fancy gingerbread houses.⠀I love homemade ornaments made with handprints and pipe cleaners and gobs of paint (but not glitter…just…no).I love baking cookies with little chefs in tiny aprons.I love angels flapping awkwardly in live … Continue reading I Love…Christmas Edition
On my bed, sitting criss-cross-applesauce during nap time, notebooks and pens scattered across the bedspread.On the couch after the kids go to bed, tapping away on the keyboard past midnight.In an apartment in Japan, making sense of life with two littles.At the kitchen table, trying to ignore the crumbs and sticky spots left behind after dinner.At a desk with Yo-Yo Ma in my earbuds.In a … Continue reading Where I’ve Written
For the ones who don’t know…
where the bathroom is
how to purchase school lunch
the principal’s name
where the bus stop is
their new addresses
which state they live in. Continue reading A Blessing for The New Kids
my hands grip each other tightly, fingers interlocked, thumbs folded over each other. Sometimes my hands are clasped, a hollow space between them, at the ready like a cheer captain. Sometimes my hands stand tall and flat, pressed together, swishing back and forth like a fish’s tail, resting against my bowed forehead. But sometimes when I pray, my hands wipe tears, smooth hair out of eyes, deliver a meal to someone’s doorstep. Sometimes my hands slam … Continue reading Sometimes when I pray
after Nora Ephron
I live in my head, in a house, in someone else’s hometown in Michigan. Continue reading Where I Live
No, I didn’t shave my legs for this. I can’t remember the last time I painted my nails, the last time I glossed my lips, the last time I let a pit stain bring me shame. I don’t plan on hiding my stretch marks, my under eye circles, my gray hairs; I’m a sucker for show-and-tell. Let me be clear, I’m an adult mammal–I’ve got … Continue reading 38
Melissa Kutsche 